On love and loving

X: Stephen, the feeling isn't there anymore. What do you suggest?
Stehen Covey:Then love her
X: I told you the feeling isn't there anymore.
Stephen Covey: Love her.
X: You dont understand. THE FEELING OF LOVE JUST ISNT THERE.
Stehen Covey: Then love her. If the feeling isnt there, thats a good reason to love her.
X: But how do you love when there is no love?
Stephen Covey: My friend, love is verb. Love - the feeling- is a fruit of love the verb.

Love is a value that is actualised by loving actions.

-A scattered excerpt from one of the books I am reading 'The 7 habits of highly effective people" (the other being Freakonomics)

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Aarthi said…
Aashi I have read this book during my P.G. It was a wonderful book...but I thnk I missed to read these lines...or shd have not concentrated on these lines...it was nice though
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